My coworker's returning to work later this week after her mom passed away. This is a woman who works three jobs, does all the cooking and cleaning in her house, and entertains family (including three grown children) when they come over. Her husband also does nothing. She says that TV dinners are too much work for him, so goodness knows he won't be helping her! I know the entire family will probably be at her house after the funeral this week, AND on top of it all she is expecting 35 people for Thanksgiving dinner at her house next week. My coworkers are collecting money to order flowers for her, but I feel like in her case something practical would be far more appreciated.
So, I am looking for a few things I could make her. I'm thinking maybe two meals that I could make in a size for two people (she and her husband)--so that she doesn't have to go home and cook after working all day, and one or two big things that she could reheat when family stops over. I'd also like to make one dessert that would be good for Thanksgiving.
There are two issues with this- 1) I'm a vegan and have NO idea what meatless dishes non-vegans would enjoy, and 2) I don't know what foods are appropriate for this sort of situation. My coworker eats meat but I'm just not comfortable preparing it, so I want to make something vegetarian (I am willing to buy cheese).
I want to make something meatless that she and her husband will enjoy, something that will bring them comfort, and something that can be easily re-heated. What types of thing do people typically make for post-funeral meals?
I was thinking maybe a big batch of monkey bread or cinnamon rolls, and a vegetable lasagna? I also want a couple of meals for two, but I don't know what would be appreciated. A shepherd's pie perhaps? Some type of hotdish? I need ideas! Non-vegetarians, tell me what you'd appreciate in this situation.