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06 March 2005 @ 11:52 am
do you believe in karma and retribution?

i do.

people who are nasty, selfish, inconsiderate and full of themselves will get what they deserve. do unto others what you want others to do unto you.

one of my ex's is being an asshole. the relationship had already ended abruptly, there wasn't even a proper talk or ending to the whole thing because he just became non-communicative and disappeared. baffling, but hey, whatever man. much better now that i've moved on. i'm not sticking around any man who tries to fuck with my mind and my feelings.

so now, what happened is that i have things left in his car, including a stack of cd's which i have to pass to someone today who is flying back to melbourne. i told him about it on friday night. he said ok. i added that i would need them back by yesterday. i was ignored. yesterday, i was ignored again.


some people have no sense of decency. their world revolves around themselves. these people will burn in hell.
feelin': irritatedirritated
lilsnoozelilsnooze on March 6th, 2005 06:09 am (UTC)
*burn burn burn*! U can just dump his stuff left at your place.
JVdrag0nette on March 6th, 2005 06:17 am (UTC)
unfortunately, he doesn't have anything here.

and furthermore, i'm not gonna sink to his level. we're all adults, why should one make life difficult for another? i have nothing against him for the way the relationship ended, even though it was the most fuctup way to do it. what's over is over, and we can be acquaintances at least. the way he's doing things, our friends will be caught in the middle and things will be uncomfortable for everyone.

but then of course, he doesn't give a shit about everyone else.
lilsnoozelilsnooze on March 6th, 2005 06:22 am (UTC)
well said, like what my guy teaches me all the time - why fight with pigs and get dirty?
JVdrag0nette on March 6th, 2005 05:04 pm (UTC)

i do need my things back though. sigh. some of those are my most treasured cd's.
(Anonymous) on March 9th, 2005 05:17 am (UTC)
殺到他府上,吧. 豬頭由我帶...

- Clay
bass_reliefbass_relief on March 9th, 2005 10:49 am (UTC)
i think you're cool and everything - but i do believe there're always two sides to a story.
JVdrag0nette on March 10th, 2005 02:58 am (UTC)
of course there is. but don't you think there should be communication on both sides? and don't you think that we should all be abit more grown up about this?
bass_reliefbass_relief on March 11th, 2005 06:07 pm (UTC)
i probably don't know everything that happened, but i believe i do know enough to say that the communication was clear - and not to mention simple.

we can keep on talking about this, and i'm not defending anyone. But at the end of the day, there has been a level of reasonability and logical sequence of events that makes things rather fair and open. it takes two hands to clap. and if you didn't catch it during the relationship, there's no reason for one to believe you can catch it after it's over.

anyways, like i say, just because you're going out, it doesn't mean you're in a relationship. and i believe you've gotten your stuff back. a little late, but so was the call.
JVdrag0nette on March 12th, 2005 06:51 am (UTC)
i'm not sure why you would say there has been a level of reasonability and logical sequence of events, or that things were fair and open - because it never was. of course it takes two hands to clap. communication should always be two-way. there was never communication from him. i am used to voicing any issues i have, right away. i cannot deal with people who prefer to run away or sweep shit under the carpet.

i didn't wish to "catch" anything after the relationship ended. in fact, i wasn't even informed that the relationhship had ended. i basically decided to give up after being severely headfucked for a week. and i'm sure you don't know everything that has happened too. because you wouldn't say what you did, if you did.

if the call was late, he could have said so. what is so difficult about a simple, "can't do it. what about next week?" instead of sullen, rude silence?

i'm sure he's a kickass friend to you, but i have no respect for people who have no respect for others.

this includes making his friends wait for him all the time, and not even informing them. i'm not the most punctual person in the world, but i keep people posted when i'm gonna be late.

by the way, i only got my things back because a friend helped me.
bass_reliefbass_relief on March 14th, 2005 03:01 pm (UTC)
i believe what happened between the both of you stays between the both of you - until it's made open in public. i've said what i wanted to say and i hear you..

well, if you ever wanna chill out or talk, you have my number. no point going on like this on livejournal.
JVdrag0nette on March 15th, 2005 02:09 am (UTC)
i don't believe in spilling the dirt on people publicly either.

BUT even more so, i don't believe in being nice to people who don't deserve it.

appreciate your input sweetie. livejournal is my place to spew... if anyone doesn't wanna read any of it, they can choose not to. no names have been mentioned... people can make of it what they will.

chilling out sounds good. i don't need to talk about this anymore because i've already moved on. this post was made because there was simply no need for the lack of basic courtesy that was rudely displayed.

catch you soon when i can! :)
(Anonymous) on March 17th, 2005 06:37 am (UTC)
Sorry for being rude, but it all sounds awfully familiar to me......is the person you're referring to called "P*** C****" from a certain company located at The Octagon?
JVdrag0nette on March 17th, 2005 06:57 am (UTC)
no it's not him. although this P.C. you are referring to is one of my ex-bf's. but i must say P.C. is no way as nasty as i described this other person.

who are you?

shoot me an email if you like:

(Anonymous) on March 17th, 2005 08:47 am (UTC)
Re: P.C.
Do you happen to have msn/yahoo? Do you think we could chat there instead??
JVdrag0nette on March 17th, 2005 08:49 am (UTC)
Re: P.C.
i'm firewalled at work, so i seldom msn anymore. i only log in on saturdays during the day.

(Anonymous) on March 17th, 2005 08:52 am (UTC)
Re: P.C.
Oh alrighty, cuz there are some things I wondered if you knew about P.C. which I found out and it wouldn't be nice if it's gonna be dicussed openly here (unless of course, you don't mind)!?!
JVdrag0nette on March 17th, 2005 09:01 am (UTC)
Re: P.C.
email me?